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    July 03, 2009

    So you want to be an executive speech coach do you?

    Last week I received an email asking, “I would like to know your rates and process for executive speech coaching.”  I responded, “That all depends on my client’s situation. Our first logical step is to have a conversation. Based on your experience and budget I can advise you.”

    Next, she admitted she wanted to do the same…be an executive speech coach. In case you are interested, this is what I wrote back. The advice would be true for ANY service you are offering.

    1. Do you have the expertise? It is not the same skill helping someone write and deliver THEIR message as it is to give your own speech.
    2. Are people already asking for this specific service from you already?
    3. You promote executive speech coaching in the same way as any other business.
    4. Fee...what do you charge for your other services? It should be in line with you other offerings.

    What I did not tell her…I became a speech coach for other speakers, executives, and celebrities after over 20 years of presenting to audiences in many industries, of all sizes, in 48 states, and on several continents. At that point, I had heavily invested in other highly priced and very experienced speech coaches. (Two of them, now retired, send all their inquiries to me.) Over the years, I have studied through coaches, teachers, and classes about screen writing, comedy, marketing, sales, copy writing, and some acting. Each time I ask, “How does this relate to more effectively relating to an audience and giving a speech?”

    Every time I go to a Las Vegas show, (which is often!), I ask, “What can I learn from what these performers do that will help speakers?” For example, every Las Vegas singer will open and close their show with their best songs.

    In case you are wondering, “How does this relate to my presentation?” On two different occasions at National Speakers Association seminars, I have interviewed Paul Richards, of California Guitar Trio, on how they put together their “set.” Paul told us, “There is a lot of variety. You appeal to your long time fans, newer fans, and first-time attendees. You play what they want to hear (your “hits”) and also your new songs in order to sell the new CD! Paul, Bert, and Hideyo met on a retreat with my brother, Robert Fripp, of King Crimson fame. None come from California!

    My brother, who is a legendary guitarist (42nd best in the world according to Rolling Stone magazine), says a performer has to be, “Reliable, Repeatable, and Responsible. Each time they walk on stage it is as if it is for the first time. An assumption of innocence within a context of experience.” That is exactly the same for a presenter.

    Will my email sender put up her shingle as a speech coach? Who knows? I am not quaking with fear at the thought of another competitor! However, as I mentioned to my attendees at the Patricia Fripp Speaking School, “To teach others to be better presenters you do not have to be the BEST speech coach…you just have to know MORE than they do.”

    If you want to get to the next level of your presentation skills, why not attend the Patricia Fripp and Darren LaCroix Coaching Camp at Lake Las Vegas August 1-2.

    To watch Darren invite me to be part of his free “Get Paid to Speak” Internet TV

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPRarM7bnqE

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    A Speech is Not a Conversation, but it Must be Conversational! Podcast - Part 2

    World Champions Edge Robert Fripp Podcast Enjoy this podcast featuring speaking style examples from legendary guitarist, Robert Fripp...

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    June 29, 2009

    A Speech is Not a Conversation, but it Must be Conversational! Podcast - Part 2

    World Champions Edge Robert Fripp Podcast Enjoy this podcast featuring speaking style examples from legendary guitarist, Robert Fripp...

    Listen now.

    June 27, 2009

    Getting Paid to Speak by Next Week: Your first engagements

    Getting paid to speak by next week: how do you get your first engagements?
    Then, once you are getting booked how do you get invited back?
    These were the topics on my event with Darren LaCroix.

    Do you dream of becoming a professional speaker?

    Do you want to get paid for your talks?

    Do you want to market your business through speaking at service clubs?

    After all, that is exactly the way your scribe Patricia Fripp started her journey to become a professional speaker when I was San Francisco’s top men’s hairstylist. For fifteen years I was solidly booked yet had to build the business for my staff who were not the shameless self promoters I was!

    One of my partners in World Champions Edge, Darren LaCroix  who was the Toastmasters International 2001 World Champion has a great service for new and emerging professional speakers “Get Paid to Speak TV.”

    On Thursday, June 25 I was his guest. Check out the recording!Recording:

    http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/1712133

    If you enjoy it you can watch Darren’s past events. Next time I will be with Darren for this FREE event is Friday, August 21. Our initial topic before we answer questions is “How to sell from the stage…without selling from the stage.”

    June 23, 2009

    Mastering the Art of Presentation Skills

    Sims Wyeth my East Coast Fripp Associate wrote that heSimswyeth[1]

    saw two people giving presenations and their mouths did weird things while they listened.
     
    One pushed her lips over to one side of her face. She looked like a Picasso painting. Sims wondered what she was thinking.
     
    The other pulled a corner of his mouth back toward his ear. Sims said he looked like he was clucking in disapproval, like a mother hen.
     
    A neutral-to-open face, eyes focused on the speaker, eye-brows slightly raised in an expression of interest, mouth in a tiny smile, head nodding, and the voice indicating attention would be more encouraging of a healthy dialogue.
     
    When you are mastering the art of presentation skills, even as a listener and audience member you are being noticed. Imagine you are at a compnay meeting and you are pulling the faces Sims mentions. What does the speaker...who may be one of your executives... think of you?

    If you want to master the art of presentation skills perhaps you want to invest in Patricia Fripp's June 29-30 Speaking school.
    If you are on a budget why not check out World Champions Edge? This is a low investment, high value coaching community. Try us out for $1 for the first month.